Trying to recover from a relationship breakdown is one of the most difficult of life’s experiences. Managing the grieving process, worrying about what the future holds, deciding whether to organise counselling, just getting out of bed each day to face the world, is enough to make you want to become a hermit. Life just becomes […]
Separating? 10 Important Things To Do
Have you recently separated, or thinking of separating? It can be a very emotional and traumatic experience, but it is important that you do these things : 1.Keep a note of your final separation date. This date is important for a couple of reasons. If you intend to get divorced, you cannot file an application […]
Damages that Flow from a Destructive Divorce – Part 1 Your Finances
When two people decide to end their relationship and separate, there are two choices that they face when it comes to dividing up their property. Choice A is to talk about who gets what, whether property is to be sold, if there is to be a super split, and agree sensibly and amicably on how […]
36 Things I Wish Someone Told Me About Divorce
Marriage is this beautiful, amazing, loving, caring union … until it’s not. Sure, some marriages last and last, but some crash and burn leaving behind a huge mess and intense heartbreak — no matter if you are the one who asked for a divorce or not. They say marriage takes a lot of work, and […]
9 Tips on How to Stay Sane After Separation
The period following your separation will be one of the most difficult times of your life, as you come to terms with your new situation. It is a period of change, and the breakdown of a relationship is high on the stress level meter. You may find that you are forgetful, stressed, angry, tearful and […]