Divorce can really suck. Two people, at one time so in love they committed to spend the rest of their lives together, find themselves communicating through lawyers and dividing assets and possessions so they can start their lives over again — on their own. But for families with children, there’s a whole other layer of […]
I’m Divorcing, and I Want to Have my Cake and Eat it Too!
Sorry, but that isn’t going to happen! Some clients do believe that they should be entitled to the larger slice of the property pool when they separate. This may be because they misinterpret their lawyer’s advice, or the lawyer has raised their expectations to an unreasonable level. Or they are listening to friends or family […]
36 Things I Wish Someone Told Me About Divorce
Marriage is this beautiful, amazing, loving, caring union … until it’s not. Sure, some marriages last and last, but some crash and burn leaving behind a huge mess and intense heartbreak — no matter if you are the one who asked for a divorce or not. They say marriage takes a lot of work, and […]
We’re Separating – Do I Move Out of The Family Home?
This is a common question that is asked of me by new clients, obviously concerned as to the impact such an action may have on a future property settlement if they move out of the home. Frequently parties can agree that one of them will remain in the home if they are to be the […]
9 Tips on How to Stay Sane After Separation
The period following your separation will be one of the most difficult times of your life, as you come to terms with your new situation. It is a period of change, and the breakdown of a relationship is high on the stress level meter. You may find that you are forgetful, stressed, angry, tearful and […]